john donker 26th June 2007

My wife Janet and I have known Dilip since we arrived in Hong Kong in July 1992. Like many of his expat work colleagues who had arrived in what at first is a strange city we were immediately taken under Dilip's wing and he made sure that we were included in everything that was happening. Our first social event was a treasure hunt a few days after we arrived - unfortunately Hong Kong's weather intervened.....those of you that were there will remember that we were so new in town that nobody remembered to tell us it was cancelled! After that we enjoyed many events from Junk trips to dinners to Maclehose walking adventures. The common theme was Dilip acting as the catalyst and bringing them together and the fact that our group was constantly added to as Dilip found new lost souls to bring under his wing! Despite his long illness Dilip continued think first of others to be at the centre of the social world until recently and this i indicative of his selflessness in trying to look after others. With the turnover of people in Hong Kong over the past 15 years Dilip has had to say goodbye to a lot more people than most of us. It is very sad to finally be saying goodbye to him Dilip was a unique person with an uncanny knack of forming strong friendships quickly who warmed the hearts of everyone that he touched and the he will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.